My five months in Medellin, Colombia blew my mind. The country is home to some of the most beautiful women in the world, thanks to it’s “melting pot” cultural history. Their flawless olive skin, flowing dark hair, and slender figures make it hard not to stare as you walk the streets of Medellin.
In Medellin, Colombia, the top public locations to meet women are the SantaFe, Unicentro, and Viva Envigado shopping malls, the metro subway line, language exchanges, dance lessons, yoga classes, and the Unidad Deportiva de Belen sports complex. Colombia also offers an exciting nightlife for dancing, partying, and meeting women. However, it is strongly advised that foreigners either go out in a large group of friends or avoid going out altogether due to associated risks. The potential dangers of being drugged or harmed far outweigh the benefits of venturing out alone to meet women.
In this comprehensive article guide, we will explore the best strategies for meeting women in public settings in the vibrant city of Medellin, Colombia. I will provide valuable insights and practical tips on how to connect with women in these dynamic environments. Whether you are seeking a casual conversation or a potential romantic connection, this guide will equip you with the knowledge and resources to navigate Medellin’s social scene with confidence and success.
Also see: The Complete Guide To Dating In Colombia As A Foreigner
The Strategy of Meeting Women In Public in Colombia
My experience was that meeting quality women in Colombia is not as easy as everyone makes it out to be. I’m defining quality women as women who have jobs, are in college, and are seeking long-term relationships. But, knowing the best places to go can give you a massive head start.
I don’t recommend simply cold approaching every woman you find attractive, unless you are advanced with that technique. This can come across as disrespectful and a bit creepy in Colombia’s traditional culture. Instead, the dating approach that worked better for me was to look for indicators of interest (IOIs).
Indicators of interest are simple attraction signals from women that are easy to spot. You look for them before making your move. A lingering gaze, smile, or effort to initiate conversation can signal that a woman is open to meeting you. If she seems reserved or ignores your glances, move on. There are plenty of lovely Colombian women to meet in Medellin.
While it may be tempting, avoid women who give strong sexual IOIs in public. Quality Colombian women with good values are unlikely to act this way. Those aggressively seeking your attention may have ulterior motives, such as a financial transaction. Or she may be working at Parque Lleras at night, a popular red-light district in Medellin, you never know. Stay classy and look for real connections.
With an open mind and some Spanish skills, you can meet beautiful Colombian women interested in long-term romance. Respect their values, read the signals, and you may just find the girl of your dreams.
Once you understand the best places to meet Colombian women, learn the strategies for approaching them: How To Meet Colombian Women In Public | Daygame & Nightgame
Best Shopping Malls
I had a lot of success meeting beautiful Colombian women in the malls of Medellin. I found it was easier and more effective than cold approaching women on the streets. When I was shopping in stores, I was able to strike up natural conversations by asking sales associates for help and advice. It provided a smooth transition into flirting and getting phone numbers.
The SantaFe Mall is an excellent spot with both indoor and outdoor areas to meet women. Within just a three minute walk, there is a smaller mall called Oviedo directly across the street too. Every time I walked between SantaFe and Oviedo, I was amazed by the sheer number of gorgeous women coming and going. The high amount of women walking around is due to the business of both the mall and the bus stops in the area.
Another favorite mall is Centro Comercial Viva Envigado located in the town of Envigado. Although technically a different town, Envigado feels like it is part of Medellin. It’s about a one hour walk or a quick metro ride to Medellin. Many expats prefer living in Envigado since it has a more laidback vibe and feels a tad safer. I stayed in Envigado for four months and loved it. The Viva Envigado mall is huge with everything you need, along with many beautiful Colombian women.
Right near the Universidad Pontificia Bolivariana, the UniCentro mall in the Laureles area is another great spot. With the university next-door, there are lots of college-aged women in the food court and walking around inside and outside the mall.
Also, for online dating you might like to see my feedback on using the most popular Colombian dating sites: Tried & Tested | Best Dating Apps To Meet Colombian Women
The Metro
For my guys that are pick-up artists looking to do daygame, there may be no better place than the metro subway line that runs up and down the city. I can’t believe nobody else mentions this as prime real estate to meet beautiful women. Anytime I tried, I got numbers from several women a day, usually by starting up a small conversation or asking for directions while waiting for the next train.
The metro has high turnover, allowing you to reset between approaches. Every 5-10 minutes you get a whole new completely different batch of women walking through. This makes it easy to approach many women in a short time.
The metro runs throughout Medellin, making it convenient to access women all over the city. If a metro station gets stale, you can even switch stations quickly, approaching women up and down the city.
I’d recommend the metro for guys who prefer daygame over nightgame. You can avoid loud nightclubs and approach beautiful Colombian women during the day right on the metro. It’s also safer than nightclubs, but watch out for pickpockets and bag snatches.
The metro moves fast, so you need to be bold and approach women quickly before the train comes. But the great thing is another train comes soon after, bringing fresh new opportunities.
Have you found some phone numbers and need some good date ideas? Then check out: 9 Romantic Date Ideas in Medellín That’ll Be Unforgettable
SmartFit Gyms
I am under the strong conclusion that the most beautiful women in Colombia congregate at SmartFit, a popular local chain of gyms. SmartFit has locations scattered all around Medellin. By the way, it is similar to Planet Fitness in the United States, except that they have tons of free weights and racks, instead of only having Smith machines.
I have chatted to several gorgeous women inside of various SmartFit locations. With my membership level, I can use any SmartFit, so I often switch locations just to socialize with different people. Be careful though, as sometimes the women may appear “solo” in the gym, only to have their muscular boyfriend on the opposite end of the gym.
I’ve found the best strategy to meet women at SmartFit is to grab a fresh protein shake just outside the doors (there are usually small supplement shops just outside the SmartFit gyms). There are usually tables where people sit, talk, and socialize. And when a Colombian women is interested in you, she’ll usually put herself in your vicinity, giving you an opportunity to start a conversation.
Language Exchanges
Language exchanges have become a very popular way for foreigners to meet local Colombians in Medellin. The premise is simple – locals are looking to practice and improve their English skills, while foreigners want to learn Spanish.
These exchanges provide a comfortable, low-pressure environment for meeting new people. Both parties are there with the same goals in mind. It’s easy to strike up conversations and exchange contact information like phone numbers or Instagram handles.
Many language exchanges lead to one-on-one meetups for coffee or lunch. This provides even more opportunity to get to know someone while continuing to practice the target language. Some exchanges have even evolved into speed dating events in Colombia because of the romantic possibilities.
Curious about what attributes Colombian women are looking for in men? Check out my article: What Are Colombian Women Attracted To? You May Be Surprised
Dance Lessons & Yoga
In Colombia, dancing is cultural and they start learning from a young age. It would be rare to meet a Colombian woman that couldn’t dance well. Cumbia, Bachata, and Salsa are extremely popular in Medellín, and taking lessons can be a great way to meet these women. If you are beginner, it’s best to brush up on your skills with lessons, which are more affordable in Colombia than in Western countries. Once you progress to intermediate you can start going to dance clubs that feature some of the hottest women in Colombia. Here are some popular dance studios to check out:
Dance Studio Casa Ritmo Latino – This studio offers group and private salsa lessons for all levels. It has a fun, lively atmosphere and attracts many local women. The instructors are excellent dancers themselves. Classes are offered most nights of the week.
Clases de Salsa Medellin (Blood Dance Company) – This studio focuses on teaching authentic Colombian-style salsa. It’s located in Poblado about a 15 minute walk from Parque Lleras, so you can go out dancing after class. They offer beginner, intermediate, and advanced lessons.
DanceFree – With over 3,000 reviews on Google, DanceFree is highly recommend for learning salsa and bachata. They offer classes seven days a week and you can also attend online. They also have a language exchange from 6:30pm-8:00pm at night.
Yoga is also popular in Medellín as a way to exercise, relax, and meet people. The most beautiful women in Colombia can be found at yoga classes. My girlfriend was a frequent practitioner of it. However, for meeting women at yoga it is strongly recommended to be respectful and take the “let’s be friends approach.” You don’t want to burn bridges at your studio, because word will get out quickly if you are hitting on multiple women.
Nightlife
Going out can be a tremendous way to meet women in Medellin, however it’s my least favorite because of the risks and dangers associated with it. Understand that Colombians go out with big groups of friends. They find safety in numbers therefore I wouldn’t recommend going out solo. Consider participating in foreigner groups, language exchanges, and salsa lessons to build a network of friends before you start going out to nightclubs.
Pickpocketing, drink spiking, and bar scams targeting foreigners run rampant. Take it slow, watch your drinks, stay alert and don’t flaunt wealth. Further, since Colombians typically go out in large groups, solo foreign men may be viewed suspiciously. However, once you develop a social circle, the nightlife in Medellin is exciting and vibrant, with thumping salsa clubs, friendly expat bars, and wild discotecas packed with beautiful women.
Although I cannot guarantee your safety, here are my best tips to reduce the risks in Medellin: 9 Tips For Dating Safely In Medellin From My Experience
Unidad Deportiva de Belen
Unidad Deportiva de Belen, a huge sports complex and park, is my favorite place in Medellin, but not for approaching women. It is better for taking dates. It features a boatload of sports: futbol (soccer), basketball, tennis, pickleball, volleyball, swimming, archery, free outdoor gym, BMX, full-size outdoor track, etc. Most of these activities are free or have a small fee to participate.
For dating, the best strategy may to be get involved in some sports leagues and make progress in social circles. However, the women tend to congregate on the full-sized walking track that has a breathtaking background of the mountains. I purposely booked an AirBnB next to Unidad Deportiva de Belen, just so I could go there everyday to exercise, play tennis, and play pickleball.
The park has cute little stands selling fresh fruit and smoothies for cheap prices, which made for fun and engaging dates. My Colombian girlfriend and I loved going there to run on the track, and afterwards, walk around drinking a smoothie.