If you have got the finances to become a sugar daddy you could soon be dating some of the most beautiful women in the world and make use of the popular new trend – sugar dating. A relationship with a sugar baby offers a unique relationship dynamic by clearly defining boundaries up front, where ideally, both partners know exactly what to expect and get to enjoy a mutually beneficial relationship. This means honesty and clarity play pivotal roles in forming the relationship, particularly in terms of financial arrangements, or in the sugar world – “allowance”.
If you’re exploring this world, you must recognize that it differs vastly from engaging with professional escorts. A true sugar baby will typically seek ongoing, consistent relationships rather than one-night-stand encounters. Fortunately, there are dating platforms specifically designed to pair prospective sugar daddies and sugar babies. The sugar dating websites in this article I have used and I’ll share my experiences and recommendations from having used them to meet quality sugar babies.
By the way, if you are curious about all the ins-and-outs of sugar relationships and how to become an international sugar daddy, then check out my robust, comprehensive guide: How To Be An International Sugar Daddy: A Helpful Guide
Top 5 Websites to Meet Sugar Babies
Here we will explore the top 5 websites to find sugar babies on. While some of them aren’t specifically designed for sugar relationships, some women do advertise that they are looking for a sugar daddy in their profiles. Remember, always be respectful and kind on these platforms to avoid being kicked off the websites.
Seeking.com
Formerly known as Seeking Arrangements, Seeking.com is perhaps the giant in the world of sugar dating, especially for dating overseas in budget friendly countries. Sporting an expansive international user base, it encompasses regions including Asia, Africa, Latin America, and Europe, presenting a boatload of choices. I have used Seeking in Eastern Europe (Poland and Hungary), as well as in Asia (Thailand and Philippines). In my opinion, they have the most beautiful women compared to other dating applications.
While joining and browsing profiles is free, a monthly membership is required to message users and tends to be a bit expensive at around $100. Despite the cost, it’s beneficial for its vast pool of genuine “girl-next-door” sugar babies – those seeking support for their education, rent, or other expenses. Exercise caution to steer clear of profiles that hint more towards the lifestyle of gold-diggers or professional models that have outrageous financial expectations, unless you can afford to do that. For example, there are women who have pictures in private jets and 5-star luxury hotels that are seeking ultra-wealthy sugar daddies.
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Secret Benefits
I created a profile on Secret Benefits and was surprised that it has a very large user base of prospective sugar babies. However, it is predominantly popular in Western countries like the USA, Canada, the UK, and Australia, with a low international user base compared to Seeking.com.
Secret Benefits operates on a unique credit system where you can purchase credits to initiate conversations, with 10 credits unlocking a dialogue with a sugar baby. 100 credits costs around $60, or you can buy credits in larger quantities to get a rated discount. This allows for more controlled and thoughtful interactions. Be aware, though, if you are a traveling man, Secret Benefits has a smaller presence in countries with a lower cost of living, where you might find more cost-effective matches.
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Tinder
Tinder isn’t specifically designed for sugar relationships, but it’s become a popular tool for such arrangements. Sugar babies and daddies use their profiles to subtly—or sometimes explicitly—indicate their interest in this unique type of relationship.
Indicators like SB/SD in the bio or phrases such as “looking for a SD” can help identify potential matches who are open to the sugar daddy and baby dynamic. While it is not tailor-made for sugar dating, Tinder’s massive user base provides ample opportunities for connections. Pay close attention to these cues to ascertain their openness to sugar relationships. And take note that it is easy to get banned on Tinder, so tread carefully when interacting and soliciting with potential sugar babies.
Bumble
Similar to Tinder, Bumble provides a platform where sugar daddies and babies might cross paths, despite the app not being dedicated to this niche. In my experience, Bumble is more geared for creating long-term relationships than Tinder is. However, I have seen women advertise that they are “looking for a SD” in their profile.
Attention to detail is key when browsing profiles, as hints regarding the nature of the relationship sought after might be put in their bio or profile settings. Bumble’s model, which empowers women to make the first contact, can offer a unique dynamic to the sugar daddy and baby connection, potentially facilitating a more straightforward communication process from the outset.
International Cupid
International Cupid is my favorite dating platform when traveling abroad because of its robust search and filtering features as well as a desktop version. It allows you to browse pages of users as opposed to swipe based apps like Tinder and Bumble, allowing you to save time from having to swipe through all the profiles.
While it is free to join and browse profiles of women anywhere in the world, membership allows you to communicate with any woman on the platform. While InternationalCupid is not inherently tailored for sugar dating, it is a goldmine due to its wide international reach and detailed user profiles. Look for clues in the “Seeking” section of profiles: those open to ‘Romance / Dating’ might be amenable to sugar arrangements as opposed to those looking for ‘Long-Term Relationships’ who might be searching for marriage. And similar to Tinder and Bumble, some women will put “looking for SD” in their profiles.
Can You Meet Sugar Babies in Person?
While it’s possible, approaching sugar relationships in-person can be tricky. The topic is sensitive and can easily be misconstrued without established trust and clear communication. Therefore, I recommend searching on dating platforms designed specifically for sugar relationships, like Seeking or Secret Benefits. This will provide a safer, more comfortable environment for both parties to express their intentions clearly right from the start.
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