How To Meet ‘Girl Next Door’ Type Women Internationally

The signature trait of the “girl next door” is a naturally beautiful woman who doesn’t know how beautiful she is. This, in turn, makes them the best type of woman. And here’s why: they don’t obsess over their beauty. They don’t have an attitude or high-maintenance vibes—they’re just easygoing, fun, and genuine. They’re not spending hours taking selfies or posting provocative pics online. They’re about being authentic, which makes them fantastic women to date.

The best part about dating overseas is that there are tons of the “girl next door” types in every country I’ve visited. These women aren’t rare; they’re everywhere, from Thailand to Colombia and even back in my home country of the US. You simply need to know how to find them.

Have you ever seen the show The Big Bang Theory? Penny is the girl next door. She’s obviously beautiful but doesn’t realize that she is incredibly beautiful. Instead, she prefers to hang out with the guys. That’s the vibe we are looking for.

Meeting the quintessential “girl next door” isn’t hard either. They are typically approachable, down-to-earth, and have a natural beauty. She’ll likely be engaging in everyday activities and places where you can meet someone genuine and kind-hearted. Here are some ways to potentially meet “girl next door” type women internationally:

7 Traits of ‘Girl Next Door’ Type Women Overseas

1. Doesn’t have an abundance of bikini or provocative photos on social media
2. Does not care about popularity on social media or building a following
3. Is not obsessed with her physical beauty (she might not even know that she is beautiful or, if she does, downplays it)
4. Is approachable and friendly and will not rudely reject you
5. Fits in well hanging out with you and your guy friends
6. Has a job or is in school and isn’t seeking a boyfriend for financial benefits
7. Does not have a high-maintenance attitude

By the way, the type of woman discussed in this article would make a great wife. Also see: How To Find A Wife Overseas (For Western Men & Expats)

5 Tips For Finding ‘Girl Next Door’ Type Women Overseas

Now that we have defined a ‘Girl Next Door’ type of woman, here are five tips for discovering one when dating internationally.

#1: Immerse Yourself in Local Culture

If you are already traveling and in a foreign country, here are a few options for meeting “girl next door”-type women.

1. Partaking in Local Community Events: Dive into the culture by attending local events, festivals, and outdoor markets. You might be surprised at the variety of events in foreign countries. For example, in Bangkok I love going to the night markets where you are likely to see many women (not working in bars) that are hanging out. In Medellin, Colombia I met a beautiful woman at an “healthy products expo” convention. These are prime opportunities to meet welcoming and actively involved residents in their communities.
2. Volunteering: Offering your time to community service projects can connect you with like-minded people who value kindness and service. In fact, you may not have heard of “voluntourism” or “voluncations” but they are actually one of the hidden ways to travel on a budget. Often times, you can receive free lodging and food if you are willing to offer your time for worthwhile projects overseas. To learn more, check out my free guide, Travel The World: 7 Financial Paths To Supporting Yourself Monetarily.

#2: Embrace Everyday Life

Many countries that I visit are 3rd world countries where jobs and high-paying jobs are not plentiful. However, my expat friends and I share many opinions in common, and we all agree that women who tend to have jobs are often quality women.

1. Working in Shopping Malls: Overseas, I always meet quality women working in shopping malls. They often work in retail, such as restaurants, coffee shops, and clothing stores. And don’t discount the many women who are educated and work as lawyers, nurses, or real estate agents.
2. Exploration of Public Spaces: Visit local parks, beaches, or hiking outdoor spaces where residents relax and enjoy their leisure time. For example, in Medellin, Colombia, one of my favorite places to go is Unidad Deportiva de Belen, a massive outdoor sports complex. These settings are ideal for encounters with genuine people.
3. Frequent Local Eateries and Bookshops: Instead of the tourist traps, choose local cafés, small eateries, and bookstores. These establishments often attract locals who appreciate genuine conversations and a slower pace of life. Also, instead of nightclubs and bars, consider daytime activities. Coffee shops are one of my favorite places to hang out during the day.

#3: Use Technology Wisely

Meeting ‘girl next door’ type women online may be your best bet. Make sure to use the right dating platforms and filter properly. Avoid women with very promiscuous photos and try to meet women who have jobs.

1. Dating Apps and Websites: For online dating, you are more likely to find ‘girls next door’ on Bumble than on Tinder. Although, it may be better to find them in public than online dating because many “girl next door” types don’t like using online dating.
2. Social Media Community Groups: Join local interest groups or forums on social media to connect with residents sharing similar hobbies or seeking community engagement. As a traveling tennis player, I join the local Facebook community of tennis players in each city I visit. It is easy to find other players, including women, to meet for tennis games.

Check out my guide on the best international dating apps, including the best ones to meet ‘girl next door’ type women.

Also, learn how to create a great international dating profile: 5 Steps To Create A Great International Dating Profile

#4: Engage in Shared Interests & Hobbies

“Girl next door” type women often have healthy hobbies like tennis, yoga, reading books, hiking, and hanging out in coffee shops. Although they are still capable of having fun, you likely won’t find them at nightclubs several days a week. They are more likely to be lounging at home watching Netflix on a Friday night. That’s why it is better to work on your “day game ” skills and make casual, public approaches during the daytime.

Here is an article I wrote about approaching women in Colombia. Although it is specific to Colombia, these strategies are quite universal around the world.

1. Playing Tennis: Fortunately, as an advanced tennis player, I enjoy playing tennis and meeting local tennis players in every country that I travel to. I have met countless girl-next-door type women on the tennis courts.
2. Hit the Dance Floors: It’s no secret that many women love to dance. Instead of late partying and clubbing, opt for a more relaxed and sensual dance floor, somewhere that plays salsa or bachata, to meet girl-next-door type women.
3. Yoga: Practicing yoga will put you within the arms’ reach of gorgeous women. Yoga practitioners are typically health-minded individuals focused on their physical, mental, and spiritual well-being.

#5: Cultivate Friendliness and Approachability

Another signature trait of the ‘girl next door’ type is that they are approachable and friendly. The key for you is to be respectful, friendly, and culturally adept.

1. Practice Language and Cultural Sensitivity: Learning the basics of the local language and cultural nuances can take you beyond being a “tourist,” creating more authentic interactions. I strive to practice foreign languages for five minutes every day using Duolingo.
2. Initiate Conversations: Be proactive about engaging in friendly conversation. The key to remember is that if you wait on other people to initiate conversations and interactions, they won’t. As a man, you must take the lead. And of course, don’t take it personally if someone doesn’t want to converse with you.
3. Sign Up for Group Physical Activities: Participate in group excursions or fitness classes like dance, yoga, or trekking to meet locals who value health, adventure, and camaraderie. You can find some of the most beautiful women in yoga classes!

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