When it comes to exploring Latin America’s dating scene, two countries often pique foreigners’ interest the most: Brazil and Colombia. Both destinations are celebrated for their vibrant cultures, enchanting landscapes, and, notably, their beautiful women. But where should a love-seeking foreigner direct their attention? In this post, I’ll weigh the allure and the practicalities of dating in Brazil vs. Colombia based on my personal experience.
I would also like to suggest visiting both Brazil and Colombia if you have the chance. Do your best to stay a month or longer, which will allow you to start making long-lasting connections with quality local women. A man who only travels for a one-week vacation will be unlikely to make any authentic connections in the realm of dating abroad. Try downloading my free guide (delivered to your email) about 7 Financial Paths To Support Yourself While Traveling The World.
Brazil or Colombia | Who Has More Beautiful Women?
Medellin, Colombia, has long been renowned for its stunning women and will forever be etched in my memory as having the world’s most beautiful women. The charm, grace, and allure of Medellin’s women are simply unparalleled.
However, I would put Brazil not far behind Colombia and think it competes fiercely for this title. What sets Brazilian women apart is the country’s vast ethnic diversity, resulting in a rich tapestry of appearances and cultural backgrounds. Due to African influence and a significant population of European descent, Brazil’s women present an expansive spectrum of beauty, from the exotic to the classic supermodel look seen on international runways.
One aspect of Medellin, Colombia, that might be construed unfavorably is the noticeable presence of cosmetic enhancements such as breast enhancements, buttock implants, and facial procedures among women. While this may be the aesthetic preference of some men, I think it is less prevalent in Brazil, where women’s beauty often feels more natural.
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Which Is Easier To Date In: Brazil or Colombia?
In Medellin, distinguishing between women working in the night-time industry and those seeking a genuine relationship can be challenging, often complicated by the prevalence of online dating apps. However, there are many incredible women in Colombia, and I have dated several of them. My main point of emphasis would be to date women who are in school or have reliable jobs. Some Colombian women who don’t work and don’t go to school are often seeking boyfriends as a means to support their lifestyle over authentic relationships. Check out my complete guide on dating in Colombia.
Conversely, the same concerns appear in Brazil as they do in Colombia. However, Brazilian women, in my opinion, typically appear more friendly, open, and approachable – sometimes even taking the initiative to start a conversation with a foreigner. This accessibility and warmth could make Brazil a more favorable environment for those looking to date casually or find a serious partnership.
Overall, I found it easier to date women in Colombia, specifically Medellin. One needs to be careful of the safety concerns related to dating in Colombia and Brazil. However, I still found dating in Medellin to be a more enjoyable experience because the city as a whole has a ton of fun and adventurous activities that can spark romance.
Differences in Colombian and Brazilian Dating Culture
I found the dating cultures quite similar in Brazil and Colombia except for one major factor. Languages mark the most significant division between these two countries, with Portuguese spoken in Brazil and Spanish in Colombia. Foreigners should expect minimal English proficiency in both countries, underscoring the importance of learning the local language to navigate the dating scene effectively.
Moreover, in both Brazil and Colombia, public displays of affection (PDA) are commonly accepted, which is quite the opposite of my experience in the Southeast Asian countries of Thailand, the Philippines, and Vietnam. Whether strolling down a beach in Rio or enjoying a cup of coffee in a Medellin shopping mall, it’s not unusual to see couples embracing openly.
In both countries, family approval plays a significant role in relationships as well as the Catholic religion. Don’t be surprised if a quality Colombian or Brazilian woman asks you to meet their parents at some point early during the courting process. Of course, if it is a transactional relationship, the need for family approval will not be considered.
Also see: The Ultimate Guide To Dating Women in Brazil | My Experience & Tips
Better For Lifestyle: Rio de Janeiro or Medellin?
My travels have taken me through many of the world’s great cities, and among them, Rio de Janeiro and Medellin stand out for their sheer beauty. Medellin, ‘the City of Eternal Spring,’ is nestled high in the Andes at approximately 1,495 meters (4,905 feet) and is flanked by resplendent mountains. The near-perfect climate and the city’s innovative social spaces, like the Ciclovias on Sundays and holidays, offer a unique experience for those seeking a blend of urban life and active living.
Rio de Janeiro offers a more complex city experience. It boasts a vibrant food scene and a dynamic culture of music and dance. Despite its charm, some areas, particularly near the favelas, are considered unsafe for foreigners, emphasizing the need for situational awareness.
Therefore, Medellin, Colombia, wins the cake for having the most favorable lifestyle due to its room-temperature climate, robust social activities, and opportunity to play sports. As an avid tennis player, I enjoy playing on the red clay at Estadio and pickleball at Unidad Deportiva de Belen.
Which Is Safer, Brazil or Colombia?
Safety is a critical concern for travelers in Brazil and Colombia, and the potential risks are not ones to be taken lightly. Both countries felt pretty safe when I followed the common-sense safety strategies I use in every country I visit.
The safety precautions that one should exercise are similar in both countries—keeping watch over drinks to avoid getting drugged, not flaunting wealth with jewelry and watches, guarding one’s valuables from pickpockets in public spaces, and avoiding late-night partying and over-intoxication. More risky situations tend to occur at night, so I strive to be in my accommodation by 8 p.m.
While I haven’t encountered dangerous situations in either country, it’s worth noting that Medellin has grappled with issues related to scopolamine, a powerful substance used to drug, rob, and kidnap victims. In Rio de Janeiro, the risk of street crime is perhaps higher; even in affluent areas close to the beach, one can face potential mugging encounters. For example, I met a French woman who had warned me to be extremely careful while in Rio de Janeiro, explaining to me that she had been mugged by knifepoint on her 8 a.m. jog.