If you’re a single Western man looking for the best countries to do pickup (PUA), approach women, and find girlfriends, get ready. In this guide, I’m going to reveal ten incredible countries where you can have great success meeting women in public. Whether it’s for short-term relationships, hookups, or long-term relationships, these countries offer numerous opportunities to connect with beautiful women.
I have chosen these countries because they have bustling areas where you can find plenty of gorgeous women walking around, creating an abundance of opportunities through daygame or nightgame. Places like shopping malls, busy streets, and popular hangout spots are ideal for approaching women and having instant dates.
This article will assist you in selecting the best countries for your international dating adventures. Knowing where to go will make your journey more enjoyable and increase your chances of finding romance while experiencing different cultures.
Also see: The Ultimate Guide To Be A Pickup Artist (PUA) Overseas.
10) Japan
Japan requires a higher level of skill due to its unique dating dynamics, but nevertheless, it has a plethora of opportunities to approach beautiful Japanese women. It takes more advanced PUA skills because, in cities like Tokyo, you’ll experience very low signals of interest, as people, in general, don’t make eye contact in public. You might feel invisible to them, but don’t be discouraged. Japanese women are usually very kind and polite once you get their attention, and they enjoy having conversations with foreigners, in my experience.
Japanese women, especially in bustling areas along subway lines, will usually be very polite if they reject you. Once you break the ice, they can be incredibly kind and keen to engage in conversation. Once, I was confused by the complex metro subway system in Tokyo, and a gorgeous Japanese woman took ten minutes out of her routine to walk me directly to the correct train. Perhaps asking for directions is a good opener in Japan, but be aware that English proficiency is not great.
9) Hungary
I spent a month in Budapest, and it was remarkable. The streets are filled with beautiful Hungarian women casually strolling around, making it an excellent place for daygame. And, in Budapest, there are numerous opportunities for instant dates, with countless restaurants and cafes. Although Hungarian is a tough language to master, most women speak at least some English, which makes communication relatively easier.
Budapest offers vibrant atmospheres on streets near the Danube River or Váci Street and the Széchenyi Thermal Bath. Women here are approachable and friendly. Plus, the city’s rich history and architectural beauty provide a perfect backdrop for romantic encounters, memorable dates, and photography sessions. I found the city so beautiful that I hired a photographer from Viator for $60 for a photo session, which I highly recommend.
Also see: How To Approach Beautiful Foreign Women In Public Overseas
8) Poland
I also spent an entire month in Krakow, Poland. The area near Rynek Glowny, is a hidden gem for daygame PUA tactics. The place is bustling with gorgeous Polish women, making it an untapped place for pick-up artists. There are also pretty Ukrainian women hanging around in Krakow. Another good place is the Father Bernatek Footbridge (and nearby bridges) and the long exercise/walking paths underneath it. At nighttime, this bridge is an excellent romantic stroll for a first date.
However, be prepared; Polish women can be very direct and sometimes seem cold at first. I experienced one of the most brutal rejections in all my experience using daygame in Krakow when a woman sternly told me “NO” and then walked away. It is essential to avoid taking rejections personally as long as you are polite and respectful in your approach. You need advanced pickup skills to succeed routinely here, as Polish women expect a more thoughtful approach. Despite their straightforwardness, women in Poland are genuinely warm-hearted once you get to know them.
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7) Argentina
Argentina, especially Buenos Aires, is a fantastic spot for daygame. I spent an entire month there, and the area around Recoleta, near the famous cemetery, is a great place for meeting women. The weekend market at the cemetery attracts a crowd of beautiful Argentinian women and visitors. Another place I noticed lots of lovely women was the famous Galerias Pacifico shopping mall.
Buenos Aires is a very romantic city with gorgeous scenery and delightful cuisine. Dating here can be incredibly rewarding, thanks to the city’s passionate vibe and warm-hearted people. Plus, they have the best steak in the world for reasonable prices. Once you start lining up dates, Buenos Aires can have endless opportunities to create romantic sparks.
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6) Colombia
In my opinion, Colombia is home to some of the most beautiful women on the planet. I spent nine months living in Medellin, and I can attest to the abundance of stunning ladies. The shopping malls and streets near professional jobs, especially in areas like Avenida Las Vegas between Santafe Mall and Oviedo Mall, are prime spots for approaching women. I’ve also had a lot of success at Viva Envigado mall in Envigado, which has a convenient metro stop on site.
Colombian women are warm, outgoing, and friendly, which makes them relatively easy to approach. The vibrant culture and the welcoming demeanor of the locals create an ideal environment for finding both short-term and long-term relationships. I would put them much higher on this list if it weren’t for the safety issues related to dating in Colombia.
5) Costa Rica
San Jose, the capital of Costa Rica, offers a fantastic location for daygame. I was amazed by Avenida Central, a long walking street busy with thousands of beautiful Costa Ricans. This place is perfect for daygame due to the high foot traffic and the welcoming nature of locals. Avenida Central takes about 30 minutes to walk from start to finish, and as an American visitor, I got plenty of looks from beautiful “Ticas,” another word for Costa Rican women.
Costa Rican women tend to have good English skills, especially compared to other Latin American countries I’ve visited, such as Colombia, the Dominican Republic, and Brazil, making interactions more accessible. The friendly atmosphere, welcoming attitude towards foreigners, and beautiful surroundings create an inviting environment for romantic endeavors. Plus, if you meet a nice woman, Costa Rica is the world’s adventure capital, offering amazing hikes, ziplining, volcanos, and hot springs.
Also see: Do Pickup Artist Strategies (PUA) Work Good Overseas?
4) Turkey
Istanbul, Turkey, is an astounding city for daygame. I’ve been there three times, and Istiklal Street, running through the heart of Istanbul, may be one of the best places in the world for meeting women. The Taksim Square area, which is at one end of Istiklal Street, and the Grand Bazaar are also excellent locations for approaching Turkish women.
You may encounter many women who are not Turkish and are only visiting Istanbul for a short holiday, but this can work to your advantage for instant dates. The city’s mix of historical charm and modern energy creates perfect settings for romantic experiences, and Turkish food, coffee, and tea are outstanding.
Also see: Using The Indicators of Interest Method To Meet Foreign Women
3) Thailand
Thailand boasts some of the most beautiful women in the world. I’ve spent time in Bangkok, Chiang Mai, Phuket, Pattaya, Hua Hin, Khon Kaen, and Udon Thani, and I can never get enough of Thailand. The language barrier can be challenging, but targeting shopping malls and main streets in major cities is your best bet. Malls like Terminal 21 in Bangkok and Maya in Chiang Mai are frequented by Thai women who may or may not be interested in foreigners. You’ll just have to approach to find out.
Thai women are typically reserved at first but warm up quickly. Be respectful and gentlemanly when you approach them; they will be very kind if they reject you. Popular areas like Sukhumvit Road in Bangkok and Nimmanhaemin Road in Chiang Mai are bustling with life and ideal for striking up conversations and setting up dates.
2) Spain
Both Madrid and Barcelona in Spain are fabulous places for pickup artistry. One area I particularly love in Madrid is Puerta del Sol. It’s a central location where people gather to hang out, eat ice cream, and soak in the vibe. It’s an excellent setting for daygame and instant dates. Plus, countless streets near Puerta del Sol make excellent “resets” if you strike out on an approach. Thousands of people, including gorgeous Spanish women, walk through this area during peak hours, and the place is also bustling at night.
Barcelona is equally as good as Mardrid as an environment for using pickup strategies. I stayed in the La Rambla area which is a good area for daygame. The area connects to the boat docking area (Rambla del Mar), the Gothic Quarter, and extends to the beach strip, which goes a long way. I noticed tons of beautiful women all over Barcelona.
Spanish women are open and vibrant, love to socialize, and enjoy dancing. The country’s cultural richness and lively atmosphere make it an incredible place for meeting women and establishing romantic connections.
1) Philippines
The Philippines is the country where I’ve had the most success with both daygame and nightgame. As a Western man, I felt like a rockstar. I spent a year living in places like Cebu City, Dumaguete, and Leyte. Shopping malls are teeming with opportunities, as Filipina women go there to hang out and socialize, not just to shop. After a successful approach, I’ve used the mall to execute romantic instant dates, inviting Filipinas for coffee, bubble tea, lunch, or ice cream.
One of the best things about dating in the Philippines is that Filipinas are known for their friendliness and excellent English skills, which significantly ease communication and lower language barriers. In addition, in my experience, they tend to be beautiful inside and out. With their welcoming nature, sun-kissed tan skin, and bubbly personalities, it is no wonder why so many expats flock to the Philippines to find their Filipina sweetheart.