Age-gap relationships, where one partner is significantly older than the other, have become increasingly popular. Through my international travel, I’ve noticed particular countries like the Philippines, Colombia, and Mexico, where an older man dating a younger woman is common and culturally acceptable. Other countries like Vietnam, for example, generally frown upon age-gap relationships with foreigners, or at least in public.
There are various reasons why women, in particular, may seek out relationships with older men. Financial security is a major factor, as older men are perceived to be more established in their careers, have greater financial security, or may have stability through retirement plans. There’s also an attraction to the maturity, confidence, and wisdom that often come with age and experience.
We see many celebrity examples of prominent age-gap couples, like actor Robert De Niro’s girlfriend, Tiffany Chen, who is 35 years younger. Likewise, acting legend Al Pacino welcomed a son with his then girlfriend Noor Alfallah, who is 54 years younger than him.
There’s no doubt that an age difference can present challenges in relationships. However, many women feel that the benefits outweigh the downsides when paired with a loving, respectful, and compatible older partner. And in various countries worldwide, these types of age-gap relationships are seen as normal and entirely accepted. Essentially, older men are coveted!
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#10 – Colombia
My good friend Dale, who is in his early 80s, married a beautiful Colombian woman in her early 30s several years ago. They met in Medellin where Dale decided to move after falling in love with the city. Dale is a big inspiration to me, not only for his youthfulness at an old age but he still works as a digital nomad. Wow!
I’ve spent a lot of time in Colombia, specifically Medellin, and age-gap relationships are quite common. The relationships, generally, don’t need to be hidden in private, depending on how comfortable the woman is with the situation. You will regularly see women who are 20 or 30 years younger than their boyfriends walking in the shopping malls.
In return, the foreigner typically provides his younger partner with financial security and stability and covers basic expenses like rent, food, and utilities. In the case of Dale, their age-gap marriage offers mutual benefits for them both. While it may seem that their significant age difference is only about money (I’ve had dinner with them), their relationship appears based on a genuine connection and fondness for one another.
Also, you may want to see where Colombia ranks on this list: What Countries Have The Most Beautiful Women? My Top 10
#9 – Brazil
Brazil is known for its beautiful people, fun, and party culture. It’s not uncommon to see significant age gaps between couples in Brazil. Brazilian women tend to value confidence, status, and financial security in their partners, which older foreign men can provide. The stereotype of the “Latin lover” also makes older men attractive to younger Brazilian women.
Brazil’s culture is more accepting of age-gap relationships than that of other Western countries. Family and friends won’t blink an eye at a couple with a large age difference. The tropical climate and beautiful beaches provide a romantic backdrop for May-December relationships in Brazil. Resort towns like Rio de Janeiro and Florianopolis are popular destinations for older foreign men to meet younger Brazilian women.
Also see: The Ultimate Guide To Dating Women in Brazil | My Experience & Tips
While Brazil has a reputation as a open-minded culture, most Brazilian women in age-gap relationships take them seriously. They see the relationship as a chance for a better life and future.
#8 – United Arab Emirates (Dubai)
It’s no secret that some of the most beautiful women in the world have migrated to Dubai. The city has become a melting pot of cultures and nationalities, with expats making up over 80% of the population. Among them are stunning models, actresses, and influencers from Europe, Asia, Africa, and beyond, who have been drawn to Dubai’s glamorous lifestyle and career opportunities.
For single male expats and tourists, Dubai provides easy access to some of the world’s most gorgeous women. It’s commonplace to see older, wealthy men proudly strolling with their young, model-looking girlfriends.
It’s fair to say that to find age-gap relationships with beautiful women in Dubai, it really helps to be rich. That’s why I recommend that most expats choose countries where the cost of living is much lower than Dubai, where their money will go much further. But in Dubai, age is just a number, and dating younger women is just part of the culture.
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#7 – Ukraine
Due to the ongoing conflict and war in Ukraine, it is not feasible for most people to travel there at the moment. However, before the war, Ukraine was known as a popular destination for men looking to meet and date younger Ukrainian women.
With millions of Ukrainians fleeing the war and migrating to nearby countries, there are now opportunities to meet Ukrainian women in surrounding nations. Countries like Poland, Hungary, and Romania have seen a major influx of Ukrainian refugees and migrants over the past year.
One personal example is that within five minutes of stepping out of the Krakow Airport in Poland, I met two beautiful younger Ukrainian women who were raising money for war victims. I’ve still been kicking myself for not getting their phone numbers.
Want to know where I’ve met Ukrainian women? Also see: 5 Countries to Meet Beautiful Ukrainian Women in 2024
#6 – Cambodia
I visited Cambodia for three weeks and witnessed many expats dating local younger women during my travels in Phnom Penh and Siem Reap (Angkor Wat). It seems to be culturally acceptable there for foreign men to have relationships with much younger Cambodian women.
Many expats I met were retirees who decided to move to Cambodia for the low cost of living. They often become regular fixtures at local bars and nightlife spots, where they meet younger women. I observed that these relationships appeared to be long-term and happy on both sides.
The Cambodian women seemed happy dating older men who could provide them financial stability. Meanwhile, the expats enjoyed dating beautiful women decades younger than themselves, which proved difficult back home.
Of course, proper precautions and vetting are essential to ensure ethical relationships for all parties involved. However, overall, Cambodia embraces age-gap relationships between foreigners and younger local women.
Also see: A Helpful Guide For Foreigners Dating in Cambodia
#5 – The Dominican Republic
The Dominican Republic is known for its beautiful beaches, vibrant culture, and friendly people. It’s also a popular destination for older foreign men seeking relationships with younger Dominican women. One of my favorite dating websites, LatinAmericanCupid.com, has an abundance of beautiful women in the DR looking for foreign boyfriends.
Relationships with much older foreign men are pragmatic and socially accepted for many Dominican women. Economic opportunities are limited in the Dominican Republic, so relationships with financially stable foreigners are appealing. Some women see it as a way to immigrate and provide for their families.
#4 – Mexico
Mexico is known for its warm culture and beautiful landscapes. In many parts of the country, especially in rural areas, it’s familiar and culturally acceptable for older men to look for younger trophy wives. And vice versa. Wealth inequality in Mexico means poorer, rural women may look to marry wealthier, often older men to attain financial security.
Several reasons for this include traditional gender roles, economic factors, and the religious influences of the Catholic church. In Mexico, social status is valued, and an older, successful husband is often highly coveted.
While age gaps in relationships may raise eyebrows in some parts of the world, in Mexico, they’re often simply an accepted part of the culture, particularly in rural areas and villages. Of course, as with any relationship, mutual respect and consent between both parties are paramount.
#3 – Thailand
Thailand is well-known for having a high number of relationships with large age gaps, especially between older foreign men and younger Thai women. However, it’s crucial to be ethical and make distinctions between different types of Thai women.
Many foreign men come to Thailand and mistakenly assume all young Thai women working in bars and entertainment venues are open to dating them. In reality, bar girls represent a small subset of Thai women, and many are only interested in customers for financial reasons. In my experiences in Thailand, I’ve found that many ordinary Thai women prefer to date Thai men around their age instead of dating an older foreign expat. Average Thai women try hard to create a clear distinction between themselves and women working in the bar scene.
With that being said, there are plenty of good Thai women that are not involved in the nightlife industry and are interested in age-gap relationships with foreign men. You’ll have to do some filtering and look outside of the bar scene. Legal age of consent laws must always be followed.
Also see: The Ultimate Guide To Dating In Thailand For Foreigners
#2 – Kenya
Kenya and other Eastern African countries are popular destinations for older Western men looking to date younger African women. The country has a relatively relaxed view on age-gap relationships, especially between foreigners and locals. In fact, an older expat boyfriend is often considered a trophy and treated like a king. My buddy Dave told me that in Mombasa, Kenya, the women were playfully fighting over him!
Nairobi and Mombasa are the main cities where older Western bachelors go to meet Kenyan women. There are many nightclubs, bars, hotels, and beaches where flirtation and courtship happen between mature Western men and younger local women.
It’s quite common to see retired Western men in their 60s and 70s dating Kenyan women in their 20s and 30s. The women date more worldly and financially stable men, while the men date beautiful women decades younger.
#1 – Philippines
The Philippines is widely regarded as the number one location for older Western men to date and marry much younger local women. The age gap between couples seen walking around together is often quite striking. I’ve spent over a year in the country. On my first visit, I was culture-shocked when I would see retired caucasian men walking around in public with their 21-year old gorgeous girlfriends.
Also see: The Ultimate Guide to Dating Women in the Philippines
Filipino society has grown to accept and even encourage them in recent decades, and there are many reasons, including:
- In the Philippines, it is “all about family.” As long as a Filipino woman’s family approves of her dating an older man, there will be no problem. Many Filipina women view dating an older foreigner as an opportunity to improve the lifestyle of not only her but her entire family. Be careful, though. That is a big consideration that you should be aware of when dating a younger Filipina. Choose wisely.
- The Philippines has strong historical connections and cultural influences to Spain and the United States. Interracial relationships are seen as prestigious and coveted. Sometimes, I felt like a rockstar walking around in the Filipino cities and provinces.
- Traditional gender roles are still prevalent in the Philippines. Younger women often prefer the maturity and stability of an older man compared to local males their age.
- The best part of the Philippines is that English fluency is high. Compared to other Asian countries like Thailand, Vietnam, and Cambodia, this allows for seamless communication between Filipinas and Westerners.
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