Colombia is home to some of the most beautiful, charming, and feminine women on the planet. With their gorgeous dark features, fun loving personalities, and traditional values, Colombian women have captured the hearts of men across the globe. Fortunately, you can find many of these gorgeous hotties on online dating platforms.
When it comes to dating in Colombia, the leading platforms are ColombianCupid and LatinAmericanCupid. While apps like Tinder and Bumble may have a larger user base, they are not advisable due to their association with incidents such as druggings, robberies, and even murders. Additionally, it is worth considering Instagram and Facebook for dating purposes, as Instagram is emerging as a significant global dating platform.
As someone who spent over 5 months traveling and dating across Colombia, I can attest to the allure of Colombian women firsthand. Their natural beauty immediately catches your eye, while their warmth and joyful spirit keeps you coming back for more. Beyond just looks, Colombian women possess a zest for life, family-orientation, and an easygoing nature that makes them a delight to be around.
While traveling and dating in Colombia was an amazing experience, it did not come without risks. Like any foreign country, there are dangers to dating and meeting new people, especially women online. While I can offer guidance on reducing safety concerns, I cannot guarantee your safety in Colombia. You need to do your own research and come up a plan that works for you.
In this article, I’ll share the best dating apps and websites for meeting Colombian women, based on my extensive firsthand experience. My goal is to set you up for dating success. So read on to unlock the secrets to meeting incredible Colombian women online!
Also see: The Complete Guide To Dating In Colombia As A Foreigner
ColombianCupid
The Cupid Network is my favorite collection of dating apps to meet women around the world. I have also used FilipinoCupid in the Philippines with tremendous success. For meeting Colombian women, I relied primarily on ColombianCupid when I spent 5 months traveling around the country. Of all the dating apps, I found the highest quality women on ColombianCupid.
My first month in Colombia I wanted to play the field. It turned out better than I expected. I went dates with four different women that I met on the website. Although I eventually ended up in a monogamous relationship with a woman I met on Facebook.
The women on ColombianCupid tended to be more serious about meeting in person compared to other apps. They seem to flake less on planned dates. I also felt there were fewer scammers or women just looking to take advantage of foreign men on this app.
With the Cupid Network, you can filter your matches exactly how you want. I like to filter for women with no kids, slim or petite body types, attractive appearance, and who don’t smoke or drink excessively. This really helps narrow down your options to find your perfect match. You can’t do this on Tinder or Bumble.
Overall, if you’re looking for beautiful, serious Colombian women interested in meeting foreign men, ColombianCupid is my top recommendation. The filtering makes it easy to find your dream girl in Colombia.
LatinAmericanCupid
The Cupid Network also has LatinAmericanCupid which includes women from all over Latin America. This is great if you’re planning a longer trip through multiple countries. Overall, I slightly prefer ColombianCupid over LatinAmericanCupid, if you are specifically looking for Colombian women.
During my time in Colombia, I subscribed to both dating platforms to evaluate their effectiveness. I noticed that there was very little overlap between the women on both websites. As a result, my pool of potential matches nearly doubled, allowing me to have a wider range of prospects to choose from.
The big factor to consider with LatinAmericanCupid is that it offers a much wider range of women from Latin America and Central America. This makes it a great option if you’re planning to visit multiple countries in the region or are still deciding on your trip itinerary.
Some of the other countries you can meet women from on LatinAmericanCupid include:
- Mexico
- Costa Rica
- Panama
- Dominican Republic
- Venezuela
- Peru
- Ecuador
- Guatemala
- El Salvador
Having access to women across Latin America in one place is a major advantage of LatinAmericanCupid. You don’t need to switch between multiple dating apps.
While the user base is more diverse, LatinAmericanCupid still has a large number of Colombian women using the platform. So you’ll have plenty of options even if only focusing on Colombia. The signup process, features, and pricing on LatinAmericanCupid are all the same as ColombianCupid. So you can expect the same high-quality experience.
Also see: Top Dating Apps For Expats Looking For Filipina Women
Does the Cupid Media Network include all the dating websites?
No, the Cupid Network of dating websites are not interrelated via subscriptions other than sharing the same parent company. This means if you purchase one subscription you do not get access to the other location-based subscriptions. For example, if you buy ColombianCupid.com, you only have access to this website, and none of the other options (LatinAmericanCupid, FilipinoCupid, ThaiCupid, InternationalCupid, etc.). Those require a separate subscription.
InternationalCupid
To take the Cupid Network a step further, InternationalCupid is a great option for world travelers and digital nomads looking to meet women all over the world, including Colombia.
The site and app have tons of Colombian women who are interested in meeting foreign men. You can easily filter your searches by location to only see women in Colombia. The benefit of InternationalCupid over the Colombia and South American-specific sites is it allows you to connect with women in multiple countries from one account. So if you plan on traveling through Latin America, Africa, Europe, or Asia, this is the most efficient way to meet dates along your route.
InternationalCupid is ideal for digital nomads and remote workers who are not tied down to one place. You can live anywhere in the world and easily meet local singles. So if you’re a perpetual traveler or location independent, InternationalCupid may be your best option.
Also see, with specific examples profiles on InternationalCupid: 5 Steps To Create A Great International Dating Profile
Tinder & Bumble (not recommended in Colombia)
Unfortunately it is broadly not recommended to use Tinder or Bumble in Colombia, both by foreign expats and the Colombian government. They are working to correct the issue.
I was on both Tinder and Bumble in Colombia for a brief period of time. I never met with one single Colombian woman from there. I kept finding sketchy prospects on there. There were lots of women without verified identities. Some of them said they didn’t have social media profiles (Instagram and Facebook). I prefer to cross examine prospects to make sure they are not catfish and have a long, positive history on Instagram with pictures dating back years.
Using Tinder and Bumble in Colombia can be dangerous for foreign men. There have been numerous reports of men being drugged, robbed, and even killed after meeting women on these apps. The women often work with criminal gangs who target naive foreign men. I strongly advise avoiding using these apps during your stay in Colombia, for your own safety and security.
Prefer to skip online dating altogether? Then check out these articles I wrote:
- The Best Places to Meet Hot Colombian Women in Public
- How To Meet Colombian Women In Public | Daygame & Nightgame
Instagram for Dating
Instagram is quickly becoming one of the most popular ways for foreigners to meet beautiful Colombian women. With over 1 million monthly active users in Colombia, Instagram offers a huge pool of potential dates.
I have started using Instagram as a dating app, but it has taken time to improve my profile and make it look more appealing to women. The key is to use Instagram’s search tools wisely. Search by location or hashtag to find Colombian women who match your interests. Many Colombian women use Instagram to showcase their lifestyle, interests, and beauty. Checking out their feed will give you a good sense of their personality.
The simple step-by-step process goes like this:
- Google popular locations that fit your interests (parks, bars, tennis courts, etc.)
- Find these locations on Instagram
- Browse the pictures for women who have tagged themselves in that location
- Follow their account and like some of their posts
- Direct Message (DM) them with a thoughtful compliment
If they follow you back and engage with your content, that’s a great sign.. Your success rate will be lower than on dating platforms. But, you may find someone with similar interests as you. For example, I love to play tennis. With this method, I can search for the top tennis clubs in various cities and find beautiful women that play tennis in those cities. Sounds like a fun first date, no?
With patience and charm, Instagram can lead to exciting dates with beautiful Colombian women. Just be respectful, avoid crude comments, play the numbers game, and highlight your shared interests.
Found a Colombian woman and want some good date ideas? Then check out: 9 Romantic Date Ideas in Medellín That’ll Be Unforgettable
Facebook for Dating
Don’t sleep on Facebook for finding girlfriends overseas. I struck gold when I found my eventual Colombian girlfriend by a simple friend request I sent her. Facebook also has “Facebook Dating” which allows you to officially browse other people’s dating profiles and send messages to those you are interested in. The dating feature is built directly into the main Facebook app, so it’s easy to toggle over to the dating section and start searching profiles.
One advantage of Facebook Dating is that it pulls basic profile info and photos from your existing Facebook account to create your dating profile. You can then add more photos and edit your bio specifically for dating purposes. When browsing, you see a person’s name, age, location, and mutual friends/interests.
With Facebook Dating, you can like or comment on someone’s profile or photos to show you are interested. If they like you back, you can start exchanging messages. Facebook Dating also suggests matches for you based on your preferences, interests, groups, events, location, and other factors.
My friend Joe used Facebook Dating to meet a beautiful Colombian girlfriend in Medellin. Since profiles are tied to a person’s real Facebook account, it can help reduce fake profiles and give you a better sense of who someone is before meeting them.
Also see: What Are Colombian Women Attracted To? You May Be Surprised
Is Dating.com Used In Colombia?
I haven’t personally used dating.com in Colombia, so I cannot provide firsthand experience. However, I became curious about its high ranking on other websites for Colombian dating, so I conducted my own investigation. I asked some friends in Colombia about their familiarity with the platform, and they informed me that they had never heard of it or used it before.
Additionally, I created an account and noticed that a significant number of women on the website resemble models. This raises a red flag because even in Colombia, a country known for its stunning women, not all individuals possess a model-like appearance. Furthermore, I came across a Quora discussion that supports the notion that dating.com is not worth the expense and several users called it a “scam”.
Safety Tips
When meeting someone new, especially in another country like Colombia, it’s important to take precautions to stay safe. Here are some tips:
- Conduct background checks. Do reverse image searches on their photos and run their name through online records to uncover any red flags.
- Video chat first. Have at least one video call before meeting in person so you can verify their identity.
- Meet in public. Choose a public place like a café or restaurant for the first few dates, rather than a private setting. This allows you to assess the situation before being alone together.
- Tell someone. Let a friend know where you’re going and who you’re meeting, so they’re aware in case anything seems off.
- Watch your drink. Don’t let your drink out of sight to avoid the risk of it being tampered with.
- Have an exit strategy. Drive yourself or take a taxi so you have a means to leave quickly if needed. Let someone know to check in with you at a certain time.
- Listen to your gut. Don’t feel pressured to stay if you get bad vibes. Politely end the date and remove yourself from the situation.
- Take it slow. Don’t share too many personal details too soon. Hold off on revealing your address or inviting them over right away.
- Meet in the daytime. Opt for daytime first dates whenever possible, which tend to be lower risk than nighttime meetups.
- Don’t send money. Scammers will ask for money so they can buy transportation to visit you. They’ll never show up. Be aware of a myriad of other excuses. It’s better for you to go to them.
Remember, you could follow all of these suggestions and still get in a dangerous situation. Hopefully these can reduce some risks. For a more in-depth guide on my top suggestions for staying safe in Colombia, check out my article: 9 Tips For Dating Safely In Medellin From My Experience