When it comes to exploring Latin America’s dating scene, two countries often pique the interest of foreigners the most: Brazil and Colombia. Both destinations are celebrated for their vibrant cultures, enchanting landscapes, and, notably, their beautiful women. But where should a love-seeking foreigner direct their attention? In this post, I’ll weigh the allure and the practicalities of dating in Brazil vs. Colombia, based off my personal experience.
I would also like to suggest visiting both Brazil and Colombia if you have the chance. And do your best to stay a month or longer, which will allow you to start making long-lasting connections with quality local women. A man who only travels for a one week vacation will be unlikely to make any authentic connections in the realm of dating abroad. Try downloading my free guide (delivered to your email) about 7 Financial Paths To Support Yourself While Traveling The World.
Brazil or Colombia | Who Has More Beautiful Women?
Medellin, Colombia, has long been renowned for its stunning women and will forever be etched in my memory as having the world’s most beautiful women. The charm, grace, and allure of Medellin’s women are simply unparalleled.
However, I would put Brazil not too far behind Colombia and think it competes fiercely for this title. What sets Brazilian women apart is the country’s vast ethnic diversity, resulting in a rich tapestry of appearances and cultural backgrounds. As a result of the African influence and a significant population of European descent, Brazil’s women present an expansive spectrum of beauty, from the exotic to the classic supermodel look seen on international runways.
One aspect of Medellin, Colombia that I noticed that may be construed unfavorably is the noticeable presence of cosmetic enhancements such as boob jobs, buttock implants, and facial procedures among women. While this may be the aesthetic preference of some, I think it is less prevalent in Brazil, where women’s beauty often feels more natural.
Which Is Easier To Date In: Brazil or Colombia?
In Medellin, distinguishing between women who work in the night-time industry and those seeking a genuine relationship can be a challenge, often complicated by the prevalence of online dating apps. However, there are many wonderful women in Colombia and I have dated several of them. My main point of emphasis would be to date women that are in school or have a reliable job. Some Colombian women that don’t work and don’t go to school are often seeking boyfriends as a means to support their lifestyle over authentic relationships. Check out my full guide on dating in Colombia.
Conversely, the same concerns appear in Brazil as they do in Colombia. However, Brazilian women, in my opinion, typically appear more friendly, open, and approachable – sometimes even taking the initiative to start a conversation with a foreigner. This accessibility and warmth could make Brazil a more favorable environment for those looking to date casually or find a serious partnership.
Overall, I found Colombia to be easier to date women in, specifically Medellin. One needs to be careful of the safety concerns related to dating in both Colombia and Brazil, but I found dating in Medellin to be a more enjoyable experience because the city as a whole has a ton of fun and adventurous activities that can spark romance.
Differences in Colombian and Brazilian Dating Culture
I found the dating cultures to be quite similar in both Brazil and Colombia except for one major factor. Languages mark the most significant division between these two countries, with Portuguese spoken in Brazil and Spanish in Colombia. Foreigners should expect minimal English proficiency in both countries, underscoring the importance of learning the local language to navigate the dating scene effectively.
Moreover, in both Brazil and Colombia, public displays of affection (PDA) are very common, which is quite the opposite as my experience in the Southeast Asian countries of Thailand, Philippines, and Vietnam. Whether strolling down a beach in Rio or enjoying a cup of coffee in a Medellin shopping mall, it’s not unusual to see couples embracing openly.
In both countries, family approval plays a big role in relationships as well as the Catholic religion. Don’t be surprised if a quality Colombian or Brazilian woman asks you to meet their parents at same point early during the courting process. Of course, if it is a pay-for-play type relationship then throw that out of the window.
Also see: The Ultimate Guide To Dating Women in Brazil | My Experience & Tips
Better For Lifestyle: Rio de Janeiro or Medellin?
My travels have taken me through many of the world’s great cities, and among them, Rio de Janeiro and Medellin stand out for their sheer beauty. Medellin, ‘the City of Eternal Spring,’ is nestled high in the Andes at an altitude of approximately 1,495 meters (4,905 feet) and is flanked by resplendent mountains. The near-perfect climate and the city’s innovative social spaces, like the Ciclovias on Sundays and holidays, offer a unique experience for those seeking a blend of urban life and active living.
Rio de Janeiro, while offering a more complex city experience, boasts a vibrant food scene and a dynamic culture of music and dance. Despite its charm, some areas, particularly near the favelas, are considered unsafe for foreigners, emphasizing the need for situational awareness.
Therefore, for me, Medellin, Colombia wins the cake for having the most favorable lifestyle due to both the room temperature climate, the robust amount of social activities, and the opportunity to play sports. As an avid tennis player, I enjoy playing on the red clay at Estadio as well as pickleball at Unidad Deportiva de Belen.
Which Is Safer, Brazil or Colombia?
Safety is a critical concern for travelers in both Brazil and Colombia. By and large, the safety precautions one should exercise are similar in both countries – keeping watch over drinks, avoiding entanglements with sex workers, not flaunting wealth, and being cautious with valuables in public spaces.
While I personally haven’t encountered dangerous situations in either country, it’s worth noting that Medellin has grappled with issues related to scopolamine, a powerful substance used to drug, rob, and kidnap victims. In Rio, the risk of street crime is perhaps higher; even in affluent areas close to the beach, one can face potential mugging encounters.
I met a French woman who had warned me to be extremely careful while in Rio de Janeiro, explaining to me that she had been mugged by knifepoint on her 8am jog.