In an ever-connected world, the allure of dating foreign women draws many Western men to seek experiences beyond their home shores. As a veteran traveler, I can attest that traveling and dating abroad is not only an enriching life experience but it also broadens one’s perspectives on relationships. Having a beautiful exotic woman by you side can enhance your experience learning about different cultures and visiting the famous landmarks that you have seen in movies.
Many men have embraced this globetrotting romance lifestyle, often referred to as “Passport Bros,” which allows them to meet and connect with women around the world. But how does one embark on such a journey? Here’s your guide to getting started as a Passport Bro.
Also see: What Is A Passport Bro? Here Are 5 Key Attributes
Step 1: Obtain A Passport
The first and foremost step to becoming a true Passport Bro is to acquire a passport. If you are from a Western country like the United States or Canada, for example, you will be pleased to know that you carry a powerful passport that gives you freedom to travel to many countries visa-free or visa-exempt.
Your Passport is your trusted companion, an essential travel accessory that usually takes, in my experience, two months or less to obtain. It is the number one requirement for any would-be traveler; once you have it in hand, you can start planning your voyages overseas. I recommend opting for the 50-page book, if available. As my travel adventures proved, the standard 25-page document fills up pretty quickly with stamps and visas.
Step 2: Get Your Finances Ready
Adequate financial preparation is key to a successful trip. Your budget will depend on the duration of your travel and the cost of living in your target countries. A good rule of thumb is to set aside $3,000 to $4,000 for each month of travel, with additional starter funds for your departure and return flights from home.
In my experience, costs can vary greatly depending on how much you’re bouncing around. I usually stay a whole month in one city which could score you a great deal on a month-long Airbnb rental. However, if you prefer the flexibility of bouncing from city to city and staying in hotels, be prepared for housing and transportation costs to add up. For example, when I stayed an entire month in Chiang Mai, Thailand (one of my favorite cities in the world), I was able to cut my budget to $1500 for the entire month which included housing, food, tours, dating, and transportation.
Of course, if you are only able to travel overseas for one week, you will need far less money. However, still strive to travel for longer periods of time as it will open your eyes beyond the average tourist. In addition, extended stays allow you to establish better connections with local women as many of the quality women are not willing to date short-term tourists.
Want some ideas to self-support yourself financially in order to travel long-term? Check out my free downloadable e-book, Travel The World: 7 Financial Paths to Supporting Yourself Financially.
Step 3: Date With Respect and Sincerity
Of course, one of the main reasons that Passport Bros travel is for the perceived better dating opportunities abroad. Unfortunately, the movement has a questionable reputation with mainstream media, foreign governments, and foreign local communities, therefore, I don’t recommend being a Passport Bro or at least doing it discreetly.
Make sure that you are one of the good Passport Bros by following local laws and cultural norms as well as treating each woman with sincerity, honesty, and respect. Don’t be one of the guys who flaunts his conquests on the public forums and social media which is a primary reason why the movement as a whole has a negative reputation..
Step 3.1: Online Dating
The digital era makes meeting people abroad easier than ever. My go-to online dating applications are Tinder, Bumble, and InternationalCupid. They provide a platform to connect with potential dates before you even set foot in their country – a highly recommended approach to increase your chances of finding meaningful encounters.
By the way, I wrote an article you should check out on the 10 best international dating apps from my trials and experiments.
Step 3.2: Master In-Person Approaching
Beyond online, master the art of approaching women in-person. As you explore the city, keep an eye out for “Indicators of Interest”. Giving eye contact, smiles, or hand gestures to women will gauge if they’re open to conversation. If she responds positively, confidently approach her and ask for contact information on WhatsApp, Instagram, or Facebook.
When approaching women in public, it’s important to avoid being a public nuisance. The mistake I see guys make is to approach every attractive woman that they see which becomes rather annoying to locals. Also, avoiding interrupting women who are focused, studying, working, and on the phone.
Also see: Why Do Women Hate The Passport Bros? Here’s 7 Reasons
Step 4: Don’t Forget to Explore The Culture
Immersing yourself in the local culture is not just respectful, but can also be incredibly rewarding. Engage in tours, Airbnb experiences, or Viator-guided trips to get a real taste of the local landmarks and history. Learning even a little of the language goes a long way in showing respect and appreciation for the place you’re visiting. For that, I use DuoLingo.
A Pro Tip: Hire a local photographer on Airbnb Experiences or Viator. Not only is it often much cheaper than in the United States, your photographer will usually take you to some cool landmarks for photos, serving as a semi-tour guide. I hired photographers in Krakow, Poland and Budapest, Hungary and came away with some amazing photos.
Do not miss out on purchasing souvenirs either. I regret not having physical tokens from the many places I’ve visited – those little mementos can serve as nice decor in your bachelor pad and be reminders of the amazing memories you’ve created.
Step 5: Stay Safe
Safety should never be an afterthought. Always use condoms, stay in hotels with good security, keep an eye on your drinks, avoid excessive drinking, and steer clear of drugs when traveling. Not only will you be in deep trouble if you get caught doing something illegal, but your risk of getting robbed, drugged, or killed is higher when partying excessively. In fact, I prefer dating in the afternoon and at popular shopping malls. I find that to be safer, especially in regions I’m not familiar with.
Additionally, take precaution by vetting women closely via their social media profiles – this can offer insights into their lifestyle and intentions. Watch out for red flags like overly provocative photos or accounts lacking a long history of usage.
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