As a seasoned male traveler (23 countries and counting), the “Passport Bro” concept strikes a chord with me. It sits neatly at the intersection of travel and romantic adventure. I have done quite a bit of dating overseas, always putting respect and thoughtfulness into each relationship. While I find the Passport Bro movement both intriguing and polarizing, it’s hard not to notice the public backlash against the community.
It’s critical to acknowledge upfront that while the Passport Bro label carries a swath of negativity—fueled by tales of illegal activities, sex tourism, and exploitation—it is not fair to paint all those who fall under this umbrella with the same brush. This negative stereotype overshadows the original intentions of many men who seek genuine connections and long-term relationships through their travels. So, let’s delve deeper into what a Passport Bro entails and the traits that define them.
By the way, if you want to become a Passport Bro, check out this article I wrote: How To Become A Passport Bro In 5 Easy Steps
What Is A Passport Bro?
A “Passport Bro” is essentially a man who uses international dating as a strategy to find a partner. He is driven by a belief that relationships in other countries might be more fulfilling than those in his home nation. Often, these men have grown tired of the modern Western dating culture and want to explore international dating overseas.
Unfortunately, these men may be perceived as exploiting the socio-economic disparities between their home country and the third-world countries they travel to, seeking partners they perceive as more appreciative of their economic status or citizenship. However, not every man with an international love interest fits this negative stereotype—many are global romantics searching for genuine connection.
Also see: 7 Reasons Not To Be A Passport Bro | A Negative Reputation?
5 Defining Traits of Passport Bros
Here are five key characteristics that Passport Bros share in common. Although there is no one-fits-all defining subset of traits, most Passport Bros aspire to enhance their travel skills, acquire Passport stamps, date foreign women, and learn to earn money abroad.
1. Frustrated With Modern Western Dating Culture
Passport Bros are generally men disillusioned with the dating dynamics of their own countries. Whether it’s the competitive nature of dating apps, the perceived lack of commitment, or the rise in feminism and individualism, these frustrations often drive men to look beyond their homeland. Seeing no quick fix within their local dating scenes, they turn their romantic gaze internationally, hoping for a more traditional relationship dynamic.
I, too, have experienced frustration dating in the United States. Experiencing a lack of quality matches with online dating, along with the obesity epidemic, it seemed that there weren’t many compatible women available or interested in me. Frankly, dating in the US was tough, even though I had a lot going for myself. I am college-educated, fit, and kind-hearted. However, traveling and dating abroad in countries such as the Philippines, Thailand, and Colombia, my experience has been the polar opposite. I finally felt like “a catch” again.
Also see: The Complete Guide to International Dating For Western Men
2. Have A Passport and Acquire Stamps
More than just having a physical passport, Passport Bros are characterized by their lust for travel, filling their passport with stamps from numerous countries. These stamps are not just travel trophies but signify a broader, more open approach to life. They enjoy the experiences that each new country and culture have to offer. Each stamp on the passport embodies a story, a memory, and a significant step in self-growth.
While I don’t identify as a Passport Bro, I realize that traveling can be a lot more than just dating beautiful foreign women. For me, it has been a real-life education while experiencing the nuances of different cultures. In many countries, I haven’t dated at all, preferring to explore the culture and learn the skill of traveling alone. I’ve been to the towering temples of Angkor Wat (Cambodia), the uncovered city of Pompeii (Italy), and the Royal Palace of Spain. As a byproduct, I have friends all over the world.
Also see: The 5 Most Popular Countries That Passport Bros Go To
3. Travel Overseas For Dating, Long-Term Relationships, Marriage
Distinguishing them from typical tourists, Passport Bros travel with a purpose beyond just sightseeing. They often look overseas explicitly for dating, long-term relationships, and marriage. Many have found successful marriages in some of the best countries to find a wife. Although the Passport Bros movement was initially intended for men looking for long-lasting love overseas, it has unfortunately been hijacked by some men looking mainly for sex tourism, a primary reason the movement is on shaky ground at the public level.
Many “Passport Bros” are on a quest not just for companionship but for a soulmate they believe they aren’t able to find back home. As for dating, when they travel abroad, they find the grass to be greener on the other side. The journeys are not just geographical but emotional, and they look to connect deeply with people from different cultural backgrounds.
Also see: Why Do Women Hate The Passport Bros? Here’s 7 Reasons
4. Have Finances to Work and Live Abroad
To sustain a lifestyle that accommodates frequent travels and potential relocation, Passport Bros typically possess the financial means to support themselves anywhere. This economic stability allows them to explore international dating without the pressing need to return quickly to their home country. This trait not only defines their capability to travel extensively but also plays a role in their appeal to potential partners in foreign countries. As a bonus, the cost of living is usually much cheaper overseas than in Western countries.
This is one of the main traits I relate to when it comes to the Passport Bros. With a bachelor’s degree in IT and a high-paying job, I was quite surprised that dating in the United States was so difficult for me. You might be wondering if my looks were holding me back, but I take good care of my health, am an avid tennis player, and do not drink alcohol. On the contrary, overseas, I feel more confident and desirable in the dating market, primarily because I can support myself financially while traveling.
By the way, I realize that the biggest factor preventing men from traveling is money. Check out my free e-book, Travel The World: 7 Financial Paths to Supporting Yourself Financially.
5. Willing to Get Out of Their Comfort Zone
Lastly, Passport Bros are quintessential risk-takers. They are okay with traveling the world alone, getting out of their comfort zone, and making new friends. They reject the familiar and the comfortable, venturing into unknown territories both geographically and romantically. Their willingness to face cultural shocks and language barriers and ignore the criticism of others characterizes their adventurous spirit. This courage to defy conventional dating and seek love across borders is what sets them apart, highlighting an openness to embrace whatever—and whoever—comes their way.
I have done almost all of my travels solo, not needing a wingman or copilot. As a result, I have really put myself out there and learned the skill of making new friends along the road. Now, I have friends all around the world. As a travel tip, make sure to explore your favorite hobbies during your travels. For me, that is tennis, and I know that I can make friends quickly by visiting local tennis clubs in any city that I venture to.